It’s no secret I spend a lot of time in the gym.
Sometimes it’s the one in my garage. Sometimes it’s the one down the road from work.
Either way, my feet hit the floor at 4:00 a.m. Most mornings I’m out the driveway by 4:07. Long before the rest of my family even thinks about being awake.
But here’s the reality most don’t understand. I don’t do it to look good. I don’t do it to have the best physique.
I do it because I know something to be true: We don’t accidentally get strong.
I’m not going to wake up some random Monday and be stronger than I was yesterday. Strength doesn’t show up by surprise. It takes discipline. It takes effort. It takes grit. And if I stop putting in the work, I don’t stay the same. I get weaker.
That part of life is obvious.
It’s also no secret that I’m getting older. But so is everyone else. None of us are just going to “feel better someday.” We won’t magically become more disciplined tomorrow. And we won’t suddenly want to put in effort once the circumstances are “just right.”
That day doesn’t come. No matter how much we wish for it.
So what am I training for?
I’m training to be stronger today than I was yesterday. I’m training to be healthy enough to take care of my family for decades to come. I’m training to run around with future grandkids someday (no, this is not a hint so don’t read into it).
I’m also training with an eye on reality. Heart issues. Cholesterol. Blood pressure. Joint problems. I’ve seen enough of that in my extended family to know I want to stay as healthy as I can for as long as I can.
When it comes to our bodies, training makes sense to us. We can measure it.
The scale moves.
The weights get heavier.
The waistline changes.
But here’s the question that keeps nagging at me:
Why do we understand training so clearly in the gym, but act like it doesn’t matter anywhere else?
We don’t drift into strength or discipline. We drift into weakness.
That hit me this morning as I pulled out of my driveway at 4:07 a.m. If I’m this intentional about getting stronger physically, why wouldn’t that same principle apply to the rest of my life? Why do we make resolutions about workouts but ignore what’s shaping our character, our focus, our patience, and our habits?
So here are the harder questions I’m sitting with:
What is my phone training me to crave?
What is my desire for comfort training me to avoid?
What is my daily routine shaping me into?
As I keep training in the gym, I’m realizing I need to wrestle with a bigger question:
What else in my life is quietly training me, and what is it training me to become?
That’s a question worth paying attention to.
